In this 14-minute TED talk recorded at TEDxUniversityofNevada in 2020, writer and teacher Michael Bungay Stanier explores the concept of the "advice monster" that lurks within all of us. Discover how giving advice can often backfire by solving the wrong problem or disempowering the person you're trying to help. Learn a simple yet powerful question that can help you remain curious, strengthen your relationships, and tame your tendency to offer premature suggestions. The talk provides practical insights on improving communication and creating more meaningful connections by resisting the urge to immediately jump to giving advice.