How to Use Simulation with Your Kids to Reduce Tantrums - 06

Learn how to use simulation as an effective parenting technique to help children practice desired behaviors through fun, pretend games and role-play situations in this 12-minute video lecture by Dr. Alan Kazdin from Yale University. Discover how creating safe, low-pressure practice opportunities like the "tantrum game" enables children to repeatedly try out new behaviors, build positive habits, and transfer these skills to real-life situations. Master the key components of effective simulation including antecedents, clear expectations, enthusiastic praise, and playful challenges that make behavior change both practical and enjoyable for families. Explore how to design simulations for various everyday behaviors such as managing tantrums, getting ready for school, and following bedtime routines. Understand how simulation supports behavior change through repeated practice while turning potentially stressful situations into calm, engaging activities that help children develop self-regulation skills and positive behavioral patterns.