Explore the concept of "Un-Incidents" — those ambiguous, gray-zone events that don't meet formal incident criteria but still reveal critical gaps in systems, processes, or assumptions. Learn how to recognize these overlooked learning opportunities that often represent 30-60% of potential incidents that never make it into formal tracking systems. Discover practical strategies for reducing friction in triage and reviews while shifting focus from debating classification to extracting valuable insights. Through real-world examples and proven approaches developed over years of SRE and incident response experience, gain a fresh perspective on incident response that prioritizes learning over labels and helps capture knowledge from events that would otherwise be dismissed or ignored.