Explore the concept of empathetic pair programming through the lens of nonviolent communication (NVC) in this 27-minute conference talk from RubyConf Mini 2022. Delve into the intimate nature of pair programming and learn how to enhance this collaborative process for software developers. Discover the four tenets of NVC – observations, feelings, needs, and requests – and their application in improving pair programming experiences. Gain insights into real-life examples that demonstrate how to navigate the vulnerability of sharing code and keyboards. Learn techniques to foster deep listening, both to yourself and others, ultimately bringing more joy and fulfillment to your pair programming sessions.