This conference talk explores the critical failures in engineering leadership and provides actionable solutions for building high-performing technical teams. Peter Gillard-Moss draws from personal experience to explain why traditional management approaches often fail in modern technology organizations. Discover how senior engineering managers can move beyond bureaucratic responsibilities, reconnect with their technical expertise, and implement effective leadership strategies. The 50-minute presentation reveals common pitfalls in engineering management structures and offers a framework for creating more productive and innovative technical environments. A transcript of the talk is available on the InfoQ website for further reference.